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CNN goes inside the PIVOT men’s retreat
CNN correspondent Rob Picheta spent five days at a PIVOT Glass House men’s retreat and wrote about what he found there.
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Patterns
Beyond the ADHD label
Survival patterns, emotional dysregulation, and misalignment often fuel procrastination and shame in high-achievers.
Relationships
Why so many men are misunderstood, and what actually helps
We are living in an era of labels. But the label explains the behavior; it does not resolve the pattern.
Dating
Good men, dating apps, and why it goes nowhere
Most men are dating without being clear-headed and regulated. At PIVOT, we don’t pathologize. We personalize.
Love
Love addiction vs. healthy attachment
The lines between healthy attachment and attachment dysregulation can get blurry. How to tell the difference.
Trust
How to improve intimacy in a relationship
True intimacy comes in many forms, all of which have to do with building trust and enhancing closeness.
Patterns
Your guide to healing enmeshment trauma
Blurred boundaries and excessive emotional interdependence: recognizing enmeshment and finding your way out.