The PIVOT Process
A methodology I developed over decades of clinical work. Practical tools to understand the why behind your patterns and shift them in real time.
ABOUT LORI JEAN
My work wasn’t learned in a classroom alone. It was forged in real life.
Relationship coach, founder of PIVOT, author of the #1 Amazon bestseller #HealthyAdult, and someone who has walked the road I now guide others down.
The story behind the work
Long before I sat across from clients, I sat where you might be sitting now: inside relationships that kept hitting the same walls, running patterns I couldn’t yet see, let alone change.
My path took me through deep personal loss and hard-won healing. Through that work, I discovered something that changed everything: the patterns running our relationships are not mysteries or character flaws. They can be understood, and they can be changed.
I started working in the behavioral health field at a licensed treatment facility, where I spent years working with people at their most raw and honest. I studied relational systems and grounded my approach in transactional analysis: how the child, the teen, and the adult in each of us shape the way we connect in all areas of life. That work became the PIVOT Process, the methodology at the heart of everything I do.
Today, through private coaching, intensives, and PIVOT Glass House Retreats, I work with individuals, couples, and business partners around the world, helping them move out of survival patterns and into grounded, healthy adult connection.
WHAT I’VE BUILT
#HealthyAdult
My #1 Amazon bestselling book. Stop self-sabotaging your relationships and start turning your life in a new direction.
PIVOT Glass House Retreats
Immersive relational retreats for women and men to help build a secure relationship with self, resulting in healthier relationships in all areas of life.
AS FEATURED ON CNN
“She was like a mind reader.”
DAVID CULVER · CNN SENIOR NATIONAL CORRESPONDENT & RETREAT PARTICIPANT
Read the CNN storyI don’t promise to fix you, because you aren’t broken.
What I offer is honest, direct, deeply human work. No jargon, no pedestals. I will see you clearly, tell you the truth with care, and give you tools that hold up in real life: in your kitchen-table arguments, your boardrooms, and your quietest moments of doubt.